
Did you ever stop to think how one seemingly minor event could change the entire course of your life? I’ve told this story often, and frankly I never tire of telling it. The quiet wisdom shown by my Dad in this case resonates in so many different settings. I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoy sharing it with others.
It was a hot Kansas day, the day before I was to head back to Kansas State University for my second year of college. I say second year because of my academic struggles I was still classified a freshman. No one ever said I had to go to class, but that is another story for another time.
Anyway, after a long day of driving the tractor, dad and I were headed back to town. I had practiced my speech all day as I drove back and forth across that field. Dad, I said, “I’ve given this a lot of thought. I don’t think I will go back to school tomorrow. I don’t know what I want to do with my life, I have a good job and I think I would like to lay out for a semester, work, decide what I want to do and avoid piling up unnecessary debt.”
With the confidence of a 19 year old, I thought I sold it well. Dad didn’t look over at me, never took his eyes off the road and calmly said, “You’re fired. Now that you don’t have a job, you just as well should head back to college in the morning.”
That one simple act, one simple statement changed my life forever.
I’d love to say it motivated me to go back to college and excel in the classroom but it didn’t. I continued to struggle with the concept of going to class, but that is another story for another time. I did go back to college and a few years later through the grace of God, a few teachers who felt sorry for me and a beautiful young lady who convinced me going to class was required, I did graduate.
I’m not going to lie to you. There were times in our early married life that Diana and I struggled to pay all the bills. But we were never forced to make a decision between food and rent, or food and electricity, or food and fill in the blank.
I thank Dad for that simple statement in the summer of 1973 for that. The education I received put me in a position to compete for jobs that allowed me to provide for my family. Who knew how my life would have been different if he would have said OK fine, stay and drive the tractor a living.
I guess now is the time where I bring this all back around to tie it in to the Food Bank. Everyday there are more than 70,000 of your neighbors struggling to make those decisions on how best to spend their money. Our most recent research says that more than 60 percent of the food insecure in our area going to food pantries are employed.
The face of hunger in our area may not be the face that you think it is. The Food Bank and our partner food pantries and feeding services work hard every day to help those who need it. I thank you for joining us in this effort and remind you that for one different decision, all of us could be struggling to make those decisions.
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We are truly blessed in northwest Arkansas to have a wealth of talent. “Stars” are recruited from all over the world to come work at any one of our local companies. People move in every day. But sometimes we forget about the ones we lose. The ones who move out.
The Northwest Arkansas Food Bank lost one of our stars this week when board member Amanda Coussoule accepted a new job and moved to Wisconsin. Amanda leaves each of us sad, but better to have worked with her. I know this star will shine brightly in Wisconsin and make it a little better place to live.
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Our Jewels of Giving Gala is 9 weeks from tonight. It is coming together nicely, with new silent auction items being donated daily and several exciting live auction items in place. Sponsorships and individual tickets are available. If you are interested in finding out more about attending or donating to the silent auction give us a call here at the Food Bank and we will fix you up.
Thank you all for your continued support of the Food Bank and have a great fall.
Because of you someone will eat today.
Kent
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